Is all communication created equal? Wednesday, Jun 23 2010 

So, yesterday, I tallied up how many people I received or provided communication with on Saturday and the number was far higher than what I thought it would be.  My guess was 18 people, but it was actually almost 100.  So, I assigned a ranking system and had to think about whether each exchange is equal.

And, after some thinking – no, not all exchanges are equal.  And, I’m ok with that.  Some types of communication are more important than others.  It’s not necessarily a comment on the other person (even though is does work out that way regarding ‘significance’ for the most part), but some stuff is just priority compared to others.  But we can’t necessarily do without, nor would we want to sometimes, the less important stuff.  It reminds of old episodes of ER.  They couldn’t be running around saying STAT for the whole hour or we’d become burned out as viewers.  And, life and the short exchanges with the guy at the post office or the quick call to your brother to remind him about dinner, they are all part of it.

Way more than 18! Sunday, Jun 20 2010 

So, my guess was that I would talk with around 18 people  throughout the day yesterday.  The actual number ended up being over 90.  Yes, alot that communication was for work, but was surprised at how high the number actually was.  I didn’t count emails and voicemails, which would have put that number over 100.  I could have done with far fewer, but there seems to be no escaping communication with the people around me.  Almost all of the talking was done in person, with a few exchanges occuring over the phone.

So, was each exchange equal?  Absolutely not!  I’ve thought about ranking recipients of my communication from yesterday.  On a scale of 1 to 10, one being the least important to me and 10 being the most – I would say, out of the 90 people that I communicated with, at least 55 would rank at a three.  Twenty of those people would rank at a five and the remaining fifteen would rank between eight and ten.  So, I am now asking myself, was I wasting my time yesterday with my threes and fives?  I’ll have to mull that over.

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